I missed a big one... I am not sure which category it would fall into, probably either Miscellaneous or Personal... Or maybe it just deserves a category all its own.
In 2009, I will stop carrying around the weight of resentment. I will stop being angry at all of the people who have wronged me (in big and small, real and imagined ways). I will stop yelling at other drivers on the road. I will not get mad when "my" parking space at the office is taken. I will live my life without thinking about what I should have done or what I should have said to certain people at certain times for certain things. This will be the year I let it all go and instead focus on the people and things that are actually worth my time.